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Sometimes the most exhausting relationships inspire greater self-awareness. A relative who overpowers a room evokes an appreciation for a quieter strength founded in compromise. A dramatic acquaintance lends appreciation for the beauty of simplicity. A negative soul highlights an appreciation for a positive outlook.

Occasionally a strong discomfort is an internal acknowledgment of my own challenges reflected in another’s behavior. Ironically some of my greatest mentors are the contradictory characters who draw into consciousness an opportunity to grow and live with greater intent.

When discomfort casts light on an unflattering trait I acknowledge the unpleasant flaw is not merely a sign of weakness but an occasion to fortify knowledge with a new perspective. My body recognizes uncertainty with tension that exaggerates doubt, frustration, and denial. When I let go of my hold on certainty I am rewarded with a surge of clarity that washes away anxiety.

Setting aside the emotions that blur my ability to process another’s lesson, my mind opens more freely. Sometimes a new perspective inspires me to create change and other times another validates existing beliefs. Awareness breeds intention.

This note is my reminder for myself to keep curiosity and compassion close to conviction lest I overlook a lesson disguised as a moment’s frustration.

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