blind dates
September 4, 2011 § Leave a comment
I have been married for over 11 years. Twice, in the past 7 years, my children have sent me on blind dates. With other mothers.
My first blind date began with a phone call. Tucked securely in a hospital bed, in premature labor with my daughter, a nurse slipped me my neighbor’s phone number. I remember our nurse shaking her head, all smiles, saying definitively: “The two of you have to meet.” A warm voice filled with humor and compassion called from the other side of the wall; our nurse’s knowing smile a premonition of friendship to come. Once our children were born, we met; she and her family have held a special place in my heart ever since.
Today it was my son handing me a phone. “Here Mom. It’s my new friend’s mom. Maybe you could be friends.” I had to smile at the irony. My children seem blessed with a gift of gathering special souls into our lives. Tomorrow I will meet a new friend and her family. I wonder what the future holds.
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